Month: August 2025

Jordan Peterson’s work has been about navigating between chaos and order. His first book, 12 Rules for Life, focused on bringing structure to life, and Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life is a guide for what comes next. This book is about embracing chaos to grow, and a reminder that a little bit of unknown is a good thing.

I wanted to dive into three rules from the book that resonated with me, because I think they’re crucial for anyone trying to build a better life, whether that’s just with your money or with your personal habits.

Rule 2: Imagine Who You Could Be, and Then Aim Single-Mindedly at That

This is a call to action. I find it easy to get swallowed up by errands, work, social media, and then a month has passed, but I’m not really moving anywhere. But Peterson argues that a clear vision of our ideal self is the most important thing we can have. We need a destination to navigate by, or we’ll just drift.

This is not setting an impossible plan we have to follow to a T. Once we have a clear picture of who we want to be, whether that’s more financially responsible, a better partner, or a more courageous person, we can start making deliberate choices to get there. It’s an adventure that gives our life direction.

Rule 4: Notice That Opportunity Lurks Where Responsibility Has Been Abdicated

This is the most practical rule in the book. Opportunity doesn’t just fall into our laps, but by looking for problems that others are avoiding. Most want the easy way out, which means there’s a lot of useful work that goes undone.

Peterson says: Don’t Wait! By voluntarily taking on the tasks and challenges others are neglecting, we make ourselves invaluable. This applies everywhere, from our job to our relationships. We not only grow as a person, but also find authentic meaning that we could never get from an easy existence.

Rule 10: Be Grateful in Spite of Your Suffering

This rule is the most challenging and important of all. It’s easy to feel like a victim when things aren’t going our way. Peterson says that even in our darkest moments, there is something to be grateful for. 

Rather than pretending everything is fine, we can acknowledge the pain and still be able to see the small things that remain, even if it is just the fact that I woke up today. This practice doesn’t take away the suffering, but it builds the mental strength we need to get through it.

These rules remind me that a life worth living isn’t something you just get, but something you actively build. It takes a vision, courage to take on responsibility, and humility to be grateful for what you have.

If you spend even five minutes on social media platforms like Instagram or TikTok, chances are you’ll run into someone sharing “life-changing” money advice. These self-proclaimed financial influencers, or “finfluencers,” often speak with confidence, charisma, and a convincing air of authority. But here’s the hard truth: a ring light and a viral post don’t make someone a credible financial expert. 

At Verde Capital Management, we spend our days helping clients make smart, informed decisions about their money. We’ve seen firsthand how misleading advice can derail financial goals. So before you take advice from your favorite finfluencer, it’s crucial to approach their content with caution.

Not All Financial Advice is Created Equal

When it comes to managing your finances, one-size-fits-all solutions simply don’t work. Each person’s financial situation is unique. What works for one person might be disastrous for another. Yet, many finfluencers share overly simplified advice that could be more harmful than helpful. For example, advice like “just invest in XYZ stock” or “cut out all unnecessary spending and you’ll get rich” doesn’t account for the complexity of personal financial goals, risk tolerance, or long-term planning.

Check the Credentials and Qualifications

One of the most concerning aspects of the rise of finfluencers is that many of them have no formal financial qualifications. In fact, some lack any relevant credentials whatsoever. While their advice might sound reasonable, it’s essential to ask: Are they qualified to give this advice?

Financial advice should come from experts with appropriate training, certifications, and experience. Look for financial advisors who are Certified Financial Planners (CFPs) or who have other legitimate industry credentials. These professionals have spent years studying financial principles and adhering to industry standards to ensure that their guidance is responsible, reliable, and in your best interest.

One of the easiest ways to verify someone’s credentials is to see if they are a licensed advisor. Look them up on brokercheck.finra.org or adviserinfo.sec.gov to review their work history, licenses, and, most importantly, any disclosures such as customer complaints, arbitrations, regulatory actions, job terminations, bankruptcies, or civil and criminal proceedings.

Examples of Dangerous Advice

Unfortunately, there’s no shortage of bad advice being passed off as wisdom from finfluencers. Here are some examples of what you should watch out for:

• “Buy this stock now and get rich.” The idea that you can make quick money by purchasing specific stocks is appealing, but it often overlooks the importance of diversification, risk management, and long-term strategy. Betting everything on one stock can lead to significant financial losses.
• “Cut out all your ‘non-essential’ expenses.” While it’s true that cutting down on unnecessary spending can help free up money for savings, taking this advice to extremes can lead to burnout. Neglecting your personal well-being in an attempt to save money is not sustainable. Financial advice should balance saving and investing with maintaining a healthy lifestyle and well-being.
• “Make your child a millionaire by opening a Roth IRA for them.” Some finfluencers are promoting the idea of opening a Roth IRA for your child in an attempt to set them up for a financially secure future. While the idea of early retirement is tempting, this advice is flawed. Roth IRAs require earned income to contribute, and infants or children typically have no earned income. Without that, it’s impossible to contribute to a Roth IRA, making this advice not only impractical but you also run the risk of failing an IRS audit which could be costly. Instead of chasing unrealistic strategies, consider starting a custodial account or teaching children financial literacy to set them up for success when they’re old enough to earn an income.
• “Cryptocurrency is the future—buy now before it’s too late!” Cryptocurrencies can be a part of a diversified portfolio, but they come with extreme volatility and risk. The hype surrounding them can often overshadow the risks involved. Without a thorough understanding of how crypto works and how it fits into your financial plan, jumping into it blindly can lead to poor decisions.
• “You can easily retire in your 30s if you just live frugally.” While the idea of Financial Independence, Retire Early (FIRE) has gained popularity, it’s not a one-size-fits-all approach. For some, the extreme frugality required for FIRE might not be realistic, and without a strong financial foundation, it can lead to burnout or regret later on.

The Danger of Self-Taught “Experts”

Many finfluencers rise to fame based on their personal success stories. However, personal success does not automatically translate to universal expertise. Just because someone made money in the stock market or successfully navigated their own finances doesn’t mean they know how to help others do the same. Finance is complicated and requires a deep understanding of various elements, such as tax laws, investment strategies, estate planning, and risk management. They may have gotten lucky once or twice, but that typically doesn’t translate to a lifetime of professional advice.

The Problem of Conflicts of Interest

Another issue to be wary of is when finfluencers promote products or services they’re being paid to endorse. Some influencers receive commissions or perks for promoting financial products like credit cards, investment platforms, or stock recommendations. This introduces a conflict of interest, as their advice may be driven by personal gain rather than what’s truly best for you. It’s essential to understand their motivations before acting on their recommendations.

How to Spot a Red Flag

• They promise guaranteed returns or “can’t lose” strategies.
• They rely on emotional hype instead of real numbers.
• They dismiss professional advice as unnecessary.
• They offer one-size-fits-all solutions.

What Should You Do Instead?

Before acting on any financial advice, always check the source. Ask yourself:

• Do they have formal qualifications in finance?
• Are they providing advice that considers your unique situation?
• Are they transparent about any conflicts of interest?
• Is their advice too good to be true?

Social media can be a great place to discover new ideas, but it’s not where you should get your financial blueprint. Before acting on advice, verify the source, cross-check with reputable resources, and if possible, run it by a qualified advisor who understands your entire financial picture.

Your money deserves more than just trending tips. It deserves strategies built for your goals, your timeline, and your peace of mind. If you’re unsure where to start, reach out to a Verde advisor. While you’re at it, give us a follow on our socials: Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, and YouTube!